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Thursday, November 23, 2006

"Arrrgghhhh.. PSLE results are out..."


Amidst the busy schedule mugging for my exams just like every other uni guys/gals, something BIG has arrived. the PSLE results. Not that i have kids who are taking PSLE or my younger sisters... hehe... Actually its my tuition kid that i have been teaching since early this year together with his little brother who is now p5. SO i called and asked how much he gets Deep down i know that his results will 'somehow' determine my fate in teaching his little brother another year. Urgh!!!

So he gets...... A for Science, A for English, A for Malay and A* for MAths. and a pass for Higher Malay. My verdict: NOT BAD... but his aggregate is only 233. But alhamdulilah i said to myself. But abit disappointed coz i know he can do better.

So i guess this kid can get what he wants from his mom. Literally anything. He and his little bro have had xbox crystal 360 and ps2 just for passing end of year exams. Waaahhh.... so jeles!!! Recently when he got good marks for common test je, his mom got him a creative mp3. His uncle got him an original Arsenal Jersey and his dad gave money. I kinda like how this family use rewards for good results they obtained. During my primary school days, i remember how my family uses another tactic. Punish if u do badly. laaaaahh....

One interesting thing to take note is that these tuition kids of mine mature too fast for their age. They purposely asked me," abang what is orgasm?" i was like.."WHAT!" so i told him to go find the dictionary coz i dont wanna answer that! urghhh... many other sexual questions that they asked i just replied simply.."Why dont u ask your parents?" and.....they just keep quiet. Hahaha...

Well to my dear tuition kid Matin, congrats on your PSLE results and may u excel in your future. C ya someday IF i still continue teaching your little bro for the third year running.




wrote on 7:48 pm.



Wednesday, November 22, 2006

"Malay Issues............Part 2"

Its never easy trying to please alot of people when sensitive issues like my previous ones are discussed. Maybe there is a lack in showing a certain amount of balance in those issues but for those who do read the newspaper on the speech made by AMP President (its 1 page long) they would know what i am trying to indicate here. My entries are all qouted from him and he mentioned that as Malays, we cannot just keep pointing the finger but we have to come out with solutions. then again, i asked my fellow blog readers whether after all those 'emotional distress' (as seen from the tagboard), i realise none have actually came out with a single solution for the problems. We are best at finding the faults but where is the wisdom that Allah has bestowned us to think and use our knowledge to good use. Muslims calling another fellow muslims as 'non-believer of Islam' will not make him a better muslim too.

There are so much to discuss when issues pertaining our own community is brought up. I myself admit to being part of those who have not contribute enough to our own society so as to push forward those left behind and make them be part of the future challenges.

In other words, alot are unhappy about the comments made by readers and me inclusive, on the newest Malay NUS production. True, its sensitive especially if u went there and realise it actually spark a chord in your heart OR u are part of the actors/actresses who wants to convey a certain message But the public sees otherwise. Well what i can say is best described by a local reader Asmidar Mat Adam (BH 22Nov) " drama... tidak akan membawa perubahan dan contoh yang baik kepada muda-mudi kita yang beragama islam.......... buatlah sesuatu yang boleh dijadikan contoh yang baik sesuai dengan ilmu yang dimiliki"

My apologies for non-Malay readers. So far, there isnt anybody who wrote to BH to give a different view. Personally i prefer the previous production "Something about Malay". nonetheless, we can go and on about this but nothing can be achieved if discussing is our only means of showing affection and sympathy. So its time to do something and show that the Malay Community has what it takes to be successful and achieve in life and the hereafter. Amin



wrote on 6:16 pm.



Monday, November 20, 2006

" Are Malays still lazy? are we still not progressing?"

About 3 days ago i read an interesting news about Malays and how our own AMP (Association of Muslim Professionals) president (Mr Imran Mohd) criticises the progress of the Malays and how the malays have yet to keep up with the new economy. He added, ' malays.. has alot of social problems that are affecting our community". he brought up a few good points.
firstly, a large fraction of delinquents are malays. There are so many drug addicts that are unsurprisingly Malay and the community are still overcoming moral issues pertaining to underage pregnancy and pre-marital sex.

I cant agree more. i am a Malay but i agree no less to what Mr Imran has said. i am not afraid to look at my own community and tell myself that we are still far away from how other races have progress. Why is it that there are so many such problems occuring? Why is it that we see so many MATS and MINAHs all around? And why is it that when a malay see another malay doing well, we end up not supporting each other.

So i ask myself...am i proud of being a malay? answer is YES and NO. YEs because if there is so much culture and tradition that we still hold on too. Being a minority helps when i am among a large number of chinese or other races. This spurs me to do as well as them. (3 malays in 300 chem engine in my batch). No because when i look at the bigger picture, theres so much problems that we are facing. Everywhere i go, there will be the 'other-side-of-malay' being displayed hanging around orchard or esplanade. Making havoc and noises and the number are increasing. THAT is the problem! Social problems are on the rise and malay guys/girls with tattoo and coloured hairs, talking in vulgarities and the list goes on and on.

I dont understand why young people wants to follow all these trends. What is so great about being a 'trash of the society'. I alwaz believe that these punksters want to earn a certain identity.They dont feel a need to do well in this life i guess. or even the afterlife. God Bless.

So Mr Imran in his speech, cited that the lack of 'semangat' in the Malay community to do well when they are given fair chance to succeed with the other races. A change of mindset and the roles of the public and Malay-governing bodies to act and help these kids. MY take on this:
These social problems can be curbed easily when they are educated with religious knowledge and having a control over their movements. Of course Mendaki and also other bodies can help with getting them engrossed with activities to keep them away from the trashes.


Let me show u an example shown by NUS malay undergraduates. Im sorry if any of u knew this guys. Most of u should have read about a play being shown at esplanade about 'melayu.com.sg'. They wanted to show the realism and explore the social issues of Malay community but what do they get?
------> criticisms by criticisms...


People have wrote in to Berita Harian about how they are dressed (look at the red circles in the pic) and how the undergrads make a BIG mistake about showing art as art itself. Why is there a need to have a play on these issues????? We all know already and its so common. And worst, the message that they wanted to show becomes a message for them instead. People asked if that is what they usually dressed. I think these NUS undergrads are making a joke of themselves. Sorry but even the public asked,"Why must we watch it??"

well u guys go figure!



wrote on 7:11 pm.



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